I AM PISSED

Well, it's 2:45 in the morning, and I'm in a creative slump. So I'm going to do what any person would do in my situation: BLOG.


And it's about 3:00, and I'm on this facebook group called To Write Love on Her Arms, an organization to help those with depression. There is this girl (Who I won't name) who started a discussion topic on the group because she just cut her whole arm without knowing it, and I replied, saying I was there for her, consider telling your parents, etc. All of a sudden this jerk (Who I want to name, but won't because I'm a nice person) joins in and tells her "Hey! No one loves you! They won't care so stop whining. They just want you dead. :-)"


I am SO PISSED AT THIS GUY.


We got into an "epic debate" as my friend calls it. I'm not going to put what he said, just some of my main points.

1. It’s seriously not nice to mess with people, especially when they’re going over the edge, a place you’ve obviously never been or you wouldn’t be so cruel and heartless.
2. Imagine if you were in her place, would you want me to say that to you???
3. She’s not “attention whoreish.” This group was designed to help people who need it, who need guidance, support, and love. If you don’t believe that, then you don’t belong in the group. Try to be respectful of others, even if you don’t want to be. Ok???????? Can you get that through your thick skull?????
4. I’m sorry no one cared that you were depressed. Did you even tell anyone? It’s truly impossible for no one to care. There’s always at least one person. (You just have to open your eyes to see them.)
5. Yes, we are somewhat deprived of self-motivation. But the only way some people can get to the point where they get help themselves with their struggles and say “I want help I need help I want to fix this” is by asking for a helping hand.
6. I’m sure you didn’t get rid of your depression all by yourself. Even if you ever told somebody or went to the doctor, that’s getting help from someone else.
7. Yes, but without anyone to build her back up, it just sits there. She needs to have the people in her life to build her back up before they start tearing down her depression.
8. Well, good for you, but lots of people, including myself, see a therapist. I actually like him, he’s a great guy. I’m sorry your dad didn’t find it appropriate, but I meant talked to ANYONE. A friend, your parents, anyone. You didn’t go through this alone.
9. Well that was your choice [to go through that alone], this is hers. Let her make it, please.
10. I know she’ll be alone, we all have, but it’s better to be alone than to have some random guy tell you to shut up and go die. I’m pretty sure anyone who was at this point in your life would kill themselves after reading that.
11. Ok, if you wanted to say that, just say it. I’m pretty sure NO ONE got your message from “No one cares, go die.”
12. Well do it [trolling] somewhere where people won’t actually hurt themselves because of it, asshole.

So take it from someone who loves and cares about others, BACK OFF.

This makes me so mad that people can hate each other this much. Someone reaches out a hand to be helped up, only to be shoved back into the mud. The world is sick.